We-Vibe Unite Review

we-vibe unite couples toy

we-vibe unite

Hey there cheeky monkeys. Time for another toy review – this week the We-Vibe Unite. I’ve talked about other We-Vibes before, it seems like there’s always a new We-Vibe version out.

There was the We-Vibe, the 2, the 2 plus, the 3, the 4, the 4 plus, the sync, the classic.. and the Unite. Not all of these are still available though.

The We-Vibe Unite looks very much like the others but surely it has some differences.

Let’s take a look at what those differences are…

Difference between We-Vibe Unite and We-Vibe 4

The main difference is the size and shape of the We-Vibes. The We Vibe Unite is slimmer and a more up to date model. Both come with remote controls and lots of vibration functions.

The Unite comes with a silk bag, as opposed to just a carry case.

Certain online shops are no longer stocking the We-Vibe 4 plus.

However to complicate matters, the Unite is a more basic model of the We-Vibe Sync, which is a lot more expensive to buy than the Unite and twice its price.

The Sync can be controlled with a phone app and features the We-Connect which we will look more into in a future review. If you’re not fussed about controlling your sex toy with your phone (to be honest I’m not), then let’s move onto the We-Vibe Unite.

What’s in the box?

we-vibe unite box

The packaging is quite sexy, I love the red. You receive your We-Vibe Unite, a small sachet of lube (because this toy feels lovely with lube), a USB charger, your remote controller and a storage bag to keep everything clean and discreet.

How big is it?

Other people have also commented on being surprised at how small this toy was, it’s smaller than you might expect at 3 inches. However it is big enough to have a big impact!

It’s made from ‘body safe’ silicone, which I guess means it’s not going to harm you. And there is one colour available, like previous We-Vibes, that deep dark purple.

How is it powered?

Like other We-Vibes, and being a higher end couples sex toy, it’s rechargeable. This is so much more convenient than batteries. It’s charged up with a USB charger which plugs into either your laptop, or a USB charging plug.

Charging takes around 6 hours to complete and that gives you a full hour of running time.

How does it work?

The We-Vibe Unite sits internally, pressing against your g-spot, whilst your clit is also stimulated at the same time. It’s nice and easy to wear during sex so that you both get to feel the vibrations at the same time, which as a couple is very hot.

If you want to you can use it alone also – or be remote controlled by your partner.

To control it, there’s a single button on the remote control; it’s nice and simple when you’re in the heat of the moment and don’t want to be pressing the wrong button.

The controller works three metres away.

we vibe unite remote control

How many settings does it have?

There are ten different vibration functions which you can move through with your remote controller.

These are:

  • Low
  • Medium
  • High
  • Pulse
  • Wave
  • Cha Cha
  • Tease
  • Throb
  • Ramp
  • Ascend

You can also watch the video review on Lovehoney which will tell you a bit more about the Unite.

How loud is it?

There’s barely any sound. As far as vibrating toys go, this is whisper quiet. Other reviewers have commented on this too.

What are the pros?

Being rechargeable makes life much easier. There are no batteries that run out to fuss with, just plug it in, however a charging light would help determine when it’s charging and when it’s finished.

Lots of pattern functions gives you plenty of options to play with.

Great fun to be had with the remote control and your partner teasing you.

It’s both a couples sex toy and solo toy in one.

What are the cons?

If you like super strong vibrations you may wish it had more oomph to it. On Lovehoney’s website someone returned theirs due to lack of power but was very impressed with Lovehoney’s customer service. They accept returns without issue if you’re not happy.

The main con is it’s more of an upfront investment than other cheaper toys.

It’s not fully water-proof but is ‘splash proof’ meaning it can tolerate a few splashes, but don’t go submerging it under water. Clean it with a damp cloth.

What are other people saying?

There are quite a few interesting reviews on the Lovehoney website so far.

These involve a couple of other reviewers who have worn theirs out in public. This toy is a lot of fun – if you can handle the tease when you give your partner the remote!

The main issues have been it not having quite enough power for those that like much stronger vibrations.

Overall it’s rated 4.5 out of 5.

How much is the We-Vibe Unite to buy?

We-Vibe toys are always on the pricier side and I class them as more luxurious toys. You pay more for their technology and quality.

Here are the most current ones and where to invest in your own.

Lovehoney £79.99 with free delivery.

Bondara £77.99 with free delivery.

Simply Pleasure £78.95 with free delivery.

Thanks for reading this review about the We-Vibe Unite. I hope it’s helped you make an informed decision before buying yours! And if you decide to wear yours on date night, good luck!


We Vibe 4 Plus Review

we vibe 4 plus review

I’ve always been a big fan of We Vibe toys and the We Vibe 4 Plus is just incredible with what it can do so it’s about time I wrote a quick review all about it.

Imagine you and your partner are sat in a restaurant together and you’re wearing the We Vibe 4 Plus. Your partner opens the phone app, and suddenly switches the toy on… He can slide the intensity bars up and down to alter the vibration speeds you feel and control each individual motor….

He can choose to really tease you and drive you crazy and nobody else is any the wiser. It doesn’t matter how far apart you are in the world. The app still works.

we vibe 4 plus couples toy

What’s in the box?

The packaging is beautiful and sleek. When you receive it you know from the box you’ve received a high quality toy. Included with your We-Vibe 4 Plus is a full set of instructions, a cradle charging dock which also doubles up as a storage case, and a USB charging cable.

What does it look and feel like?

The We Vibe 4 Plus feels lovely and soft to touch, and you can tell that it’s made from good quality silicone. It is flexible, and the more you use it, the more flexible and comfortable it gets.

One reviewer on the Lovehoney site said she actually wore hers around the house to break it in more. Why not hey!

It has an insertable length of 2.5 inches. I love that it’s completely water-proof, although the remote isn’t and of course, neither is your mobile phone.

There are extra ridges on the G-spot side of the toy that add extra stimulation internally whilst the toy is vibrating.

we vibe 4 plus packaging box

How is it powered?

As mentioned above, you get a USB charging cable with the toy, so all you have to do is plug it into a USB port on your computer or with your phone charger. I am a big fan of rechargeable toys and they’re so much more convenient than battery powered ones.

Rechargeable toys usually come with a higher price tag though compared to battery operated ones. In the end, what you save in batteries, you spend extra on the rechargeable toy so it really all balances out but with more convenience.

The We Vibe 4 comes with a cradle charging dock that is discreet and means you can charge it up without anyone actually knowing what’s inside. The toy sits in the dock and charges through it so you don’t need to plug the toy in, just sit it on the egg.

It’s all self explanatory when you get yours.

When you receive your own We Vibe 4 Plus you will need to charge it up for 6 hours before you can use it. I love that there is a little LED on the front of the dock that flashes whilst it’s charging, and when it’s fully charged, the flashing stops.

What do you actually do with the We Vibe 4 Plus?

I know, I know, a lot of you reading this will be like I first once and wondering, err, what do you actually do with it? How on earth can a couple use this during sex?

The We Vibe 4 plus is designed specifically as a couples toy.

One side of the toy inserts into you, and it curls to hit your G-Spot, whilst the other end curls and hits your clitoris.

Now at the same time as this, your partner will also insert himself into you and feel the vibrations as well.

Fans of the We Vibe 3 will notice that the We Vibe 4 Plus is actually a lot smaller, possibly up to a third smaller. This makes it more comfortable and easier to wear whilst having sex.

The smooth silicone makes it feel nice and easy to have sex with and there isn’t a problem with friction, especially if you use plenty of water-based lube. Have a read of some of the other reviews on the Lovehoney site where there are loads to read to give you an idea of what they’re saying too.

we vibe 4 plus review diagram

Diagram from we-vibe.com showing you how the We-Vibe 4 Plus is positioned when using it during sex.

What are the functions?

It has 6 functions and 10 intensity settings to choose from.

There are two individual motors, one on either side of the toy which you can control individually, or as one.

One of the motors is on the G-spot stimulator and works internally, whilst the other is for the clitoris and works externally. See in the diagram above how the toy looks in use during sex. Both you and your partner benefit from the vibrations.

How it is controlled?

It can be controlled either directly on the toy itself using a single controller button, by the wireless remote or the innovative smart phone app. The app can be controlled by you or your partner, no matter how far apart you are.

To use the button on the We Vibe 4 Plus, you just press and hold the button to switch it on and off, then keep pressing it once to move through the functions.

To use the remote control just press and hold the up button to switch it on. The up and down buttons then control the intensity and the side buttons control the functions which you can move through to find one that you like. To switch it off, this time hold down the bottom button.

Using the app

The app will work for the We Vibe 4 Plus no matter where you are.

Make sure the blue tooth on your mobile phone is on or the app won’t be able to connect to the toy. When you’ve downloaded the app, press the play button on the app, and it will look for the We Vibe 4 Plus. When it’s found it, the toy buzzes three times into life.

You can even switch the toy on with the app by just pressing play within the app.

The toy has two separate controls for each motor, if you decide to control them separately. You can do this by pressing the link button and you will unlink the motors and control them individually.

There is even a button for ‘unexpected pleasure’ which is cool. For this you press the random button, and you will get any vibration pattern that the app chooses.

If you want to choose your own vibration pattern, you just have to swipe the screen until you find a setting that you love and each pattern has it’s own visual representation.


How does it feel?

Before you use the We Vibe 4 Plus, make sure you have some good water-based lube ready, as this helps you get the toy in place without any sort of discomfort.

The vibrations feel really good and strong. It is built for couples to use, but you can also use this entirely as a solo toy and it is still a powerful toy for using completely alone.

How loud is it?

The We Vibe 4 Plus is really a discreet and quiet toy, and I’m not surprised at that with how well built it is and it’s price. To watch it in action and get an idea of how loud it is, I recommend you watch the review video by Lisa who demonstrates it in action. The vibration sounds are obviously quiet compared to a lot of other vibrators out there and video reviews I have seen.

What’s the difference between the We-Vibe 4 and We-Vibe 4 Plus?

The We Vibe 4 Plus combines all the previous feature of the We-Vibe 4 but with remote technology, the phone app. The app can easily be downloaded to your phone from the app store on either Apple IOS or Android.

Is it worth buying?

Okay this is a fairly expensive toy but you do get a lot from it! It’s received so far 46 positive reviews on the Lovehoney website. Have a read of them all here for lots more opinions.

This toy has clearly been very well thought out and the app that goes with it is a very smart element, especially the way it’s controlled, is completely hands free and feels very intimate.


Pros of the We Vibe 4 Plus

Where to begin with the pros?

It’s fully waterproof.

You have the cool app and remote features that you can use to tease and engage sexually with each other when far apart.

You can also use it during sex when you’re back together.

It’s packed with speeds and functions.

It’s rechargeable via USB.

It’s very well designed and simple to use.

It’s so comfortable during sex and will definitely give you both a good time and really enhances your sex life.

Any Cons?

The only real con for me was it’s price, which won’t be for everyone, but it really is an investment in your sex life.

I’m struggling for other cons so I will say that you also need to charge it up before it can be used for 6 hours which means there is a delay before you can first use it!

Get yours:

Choose from grey, pink or purple.

Buy from:

Unfortunately since writing this version of the We Vibe has been discontinued, however, We Vibe have brought out newer, better, more modern products so check out all of those at Lovehoney here!

7 of the Best Bullet Vibrators


Bullet vibrators look a lot like bullets and are used mainly for clitoral stimulation.

They’re particularly good for women for a quick easy orgasm. Of course you can also get imaginative and use a bullet vibrator in other places too and they’re really good for during foreplay.

Bullet vibrators are some of the cheapest vibrators and are very affordable with prices ranging from as low as £3.99 through to £50+. They’re also very small and portable and can easily be stored discreetly in your handbag.

For the purposes of this post I’m going to write on the basis of the bullet vibrators just being used for clitoral stimulation.

I’ll be answering the following questions:

  • What are the features?
  • Is it any good?
  • How much is it?

1. Rocks Off Ramsey Rabbit

ramsey rabbit bullets

What are the features?

Ramsey Rabbit is very small and cute at 4 inches long and 1.3 inches in diameter. He has a “soft hypo-allergenic Intramed silicone body”. Which basically means he feels soft but firm, and has a medical grade silicone coating.

ramsey rabbit bullet review

Being silicone I would recommend you only use a water-based lube with him.

ramsey rabbit bullet reviews

Right now he’s only available in pink in the UK and it would be nice if in future there were other colours available to choose from.

Like many bullet vibrators he only has one single speed of vibration which means there are no other choices. This is because the vibrations are powered by a “RO-80mm bullet vibrator” inside him, and they pass through the body into the ears. It works very well and is a lot like a rabbit vibrator without the shaft.

You can buy RO-80mm bullets on their own but with Ramsey Rabbit you get both the bullet, and the rabbit sleeve giving you two options of us.

Is it (he) any good?

Ramsey is powerful and also really quiet.  You can barely hear the vibrations. Perfect for when you don’t want to pink ramsey rabbit bulletbe heard.

I often find bullet vibrators like this are too powerful and can cause some numbness so what’s great about Ramsey is the way the vibrations are more gentle on the clit and you can move it around to get stronger or weaker vibrations depending on your needs at the time.

Looking at the other positive reviews on the Bondara website, he’s a very popular introductory sex toy if you’re looking for your first one. There’s no danger of feeling overwhelmed by Ramsey. He’s friendly and just wants to give you orgasms.

Being fully waterproof and submersible means you can use him in the bath or shower, and makes cleaning him very easy. No dangers of getting any water inside.

Ramsey is supplied with the one N sized battery which is a big bonus.

How much?

Bondara £17.99 with free delivery

2. Tracey Cox Super Sex Super Bullet Vibrator

Tracey Cox SuperSex Super Bullet

What are the features?

Tracey Cox SuperSex Super Bullet

The “Tracey Cox Super Sex Bullet” is a bigger version of the original Tracey Cox Bullet. Being much bigger than the average bullet makes it easier to hold and control. I think the key selling points with this bullet are it’s size and power.

Tracey Cox SuperSex Super Bullet

It has three different speeds and three different patterns so altogether has six functions. For a bullet this is a lot of options to play with!

Is it any good?

You can insert it 3.5 inches so is good for shallow penetration. Not many bullets are big enough to be inserted very much at all so it’s nice to have that option.

It’s powered with two AAA batteries and unfortunately they weren’t supplied with the bullet. This was disappointing but so common with battery powered toys.

The batteries were really easy to put in by just unscrewing the top of the bullet, placing them inside then screwing the top back on.

To switch on you just push the button on the top once and the bullet begins to vibrate. It’s definitely packed with power! Even on the lowest setting the vibrations are extremely strong.

Tracey Cox - Sex Guru

To move through the six different functions you just keep pressing the button on the top and with each press you move onto a different pattern of vibration. It couldn’t be simpler to use. To switch off just press and hold the button down and the bullet stops vibrating.

To move through the six different functions you just keep pressing the button on the top and with each press you move onto a different pattern of vibration. It couldn’t be simpler to use. To switch off just press and hold the button down and the bullet stops vibrating.

To move through the six different functions you just keep pressing the button on the top and with each press you move onto a different pattern of vibration. It couldn’t be simpler to use. To switch off just press and hold the button down and the bullet stops vibrating.

Soundwise this is not the quietest of bullets but it’s not overly noisy. With so much power it’s bound to make some noise. Under the duvets it is very muffled and you can barely hear it. Another plus point is this bullet is completely waterproof and submersible.

You can see just how powerful this bullet is for yourself on the Lovehoney video review.

tracey cox super sex bullet

How much?

Lovehoney £24.99 with free delivery

 3. 50 Shades of Grey We Aim To Please Bullet

50 Shades of Grey We Aim to Please Bullet

What are the features?

This bullet is from the 50 Shades Official Collection and is the only range that’s fully approved by the author E.L. James. If you’re a fan of the book you’ll enjoy owning the official bullet.

50 Shades Bullet Video Review

Lovehoney have a video review showing the 50 Shades bullet.

Features are very simple. It has one single speed of vibration and is controlled by the button on the end. You press it down to switch the bullet on, and press it down again to switch it off.

50 shades

Is it any good?

The packaging is very nice, sleek and classy. A storage bag is also included.

A downside to this bullet is that the battery doesn’t last very long so I’d advice you to stock up and buy a few batteries at once (plus the battery isn’t included). It only uses one AAA battery so it’s quickly drained.

Being completely waterproof and submersible is always a bonus.

It’s a very basic bullet and okay for someone brand new to sex toys or who loved the book.

How much?

Lovehoney £11.99 with free delivery

We Vibe Tango

We-Vibe Salsa and Tango

I’ve put these two We Vibe Tango into the same review because they are very similar. The differences are that the Salsa has a pointed end and the Tango has a flat end to it.

What are the features?

The Salsa and Tango are very elegant bullets and best of all are mains powered!

There are eight different vibrate and pattern functions. These bullets are very powerful and are just in a league of their own compared to other bullets on the market.

They come with a charger and a little adapter (plus a bag). Now as they are completely sealed you do wonder at first how they charges. All you do is plug the charger into the adapter. The adapter is magnetic and then sticks onto the Salsa or Tango. It’s really very clever.

Then of course you just plug the mains plug into the wall socket. It takes ninety minutes to charge. That’s all. It’s “super charge”. Other We-Vibe toys take over three hours. The charge lasts for two hours.

Another great feature is they’re waterproof and completely submersible.

We vibe salsa and tango

Are they any good?

The Tango and Salsa are both fantastic bullet and rightly so with their hefty price tags. We-Vibe do luxurious sex toys and you would only expect high quality from them.

The different vibration modes are really good. They’re controlled using the button on the top. They are also both really quiet despite how much power they have.Having tried other We-Vibe toys I wasn’t surprised at how good these bullets were.

How much?

Brace yourself, We-Vibe toys are not cheap and the Salsa and Tango are no different. Are they worth the money? They are in a league of their own when it comes to bullets and if a luxury bullet is what you’re after this will be the one.

You will also save on batteries! However you can have just as much fun with one of the much cheaper bullets.

Since writing this – only the Tango is available.

Lovehoney £69.99 with delivery

5. Aquagasmic Bullet Vibrator


What are the features?

As you can tell by the name Aquagasmic, this is a completely waterproof bullet.

The Aquagasmic has different vibration speeds which are controlled by twisting the base. This is a slightly different method of control to many bullets that usually have a button on the end that you press.

Is it any good?

It is a good little bullet packed with power, and with the price being so low you can’t go far wrong. Plus batteries (AA) were included with my delivery which is a bonus and adds to it being a good bargain.

I love the colour too. It’s pearly pink and shiny. So far it has an amazing all 5 star rating on the Bondara website which says a lot for how many other like it. If you’re looking for your first toy to try, or you don’t want to spend a lot on a vibrator the Aquagasmic bullet is definitely a good choice for you.

How much?

Bondara £6.99 including delivery.

6. Mantric Bedside Bullet Vibrator

What are the features?

There are two parts to the Mantric Bullet Vibrator, the remote control and the Mantric bullet itself. The remote control is attached to the bullet with 87cm of cable.

There are three different speeds of vibration and seven different patterns so that’s a very dynamic ten functions to this bullet!

To start the Mantric bullet you press the up button on the remote control. You then move through each function by scrolling up with the up button (or down button if you want to go back one).

Is it any good?

Personally I dislike any toys that have remote controls attached to them with cables. I find them annoying and they can get in the way when there’s two of you involved.

Despite this it’s a very powerful little bullet and the Lovehoney video review demonstrates the power if you watch how much the bullet jumps off the table when the power is turned up.

There is one advantage of having a remote control though, and that is the ease of changing settings whilst the bullet is in use. There’s no need to be looking down to figure out what to press next.

A disadvantage for me was switching off. There is no off button specifically and you have to keep scrolling through the functions until you get to “off.” If you’re only on function two, then you can scroll back down to zero, or if you’re say on function seven then you would scroll up to zero again. This is just a minor niggle though.

It’s not waterproof and is fairly small compared to other bullets at 2.25 inches. It uses three AA batteries and is another sex toy that isn’t supplied with batteries so you will have to make sure you order some or have some spares at home.

One thing I have to point out is how well built this bullet and controller are, and also it has got very positive reviews on Lovehoney. A lot of people really like it!

How much?

Lovehoney £14.99 with free delivery.

7. Rocks Off Ammunition RO-120mm Bullet Vibrator

What are the features?

The Rocks Off Ammunition RO-120mm Vibrating Bullet is larger than the average bullet at 5 inches long and is insertable up to 3.5 inches.

To switch on you just press and hold down the button on the top of the bullet and the vibrations begin. To switch off you do the same again.

There are five different functions of vibration, some are continuous vibrations and some are patterns. To change function you just keep pressing the button and you move through them. There’s a pulse pattern, quick pulse, a random pattern and two continuous speeds.

Is it any good?

Being fully waterproof and submersible is always a big bonus. Not only does this give you the flexibility to use it in the bath or shower, but it also makes cleaning very easy.

It’s powered by two AAA batteries which are included – very helpful. You add the batteries just by unscrewing the base.

What I like about this bullet is how well built it feels. Some less expensive bullets obviously feel cheaper, but this one does feel chunky and solid.

On Lovehoney there’s currently 37 positive reviews and it scored 9 out of 10 which gives you a good indication that a lot of people really like this bullet. Not all bullets are rated so highly.

It’s definitely a very powerful bullet and matches it’s name – ammunition! You only have to watch the video review to see how powerful this bullet is on the slowest speed. The downside to such power is that it’s not quiet and you can hear the vibrations quite easily.

I also loved the packaging. The box is nice and solid and the hinged lid adds a luxurious feel when you first receive it through the post.

How much?

Lovehoney £19.99 including free delivery.

If you have a bullet vibrator you would love and would like to suggest please get in touch, I’d love to know what your favourites are!


>>> Update: Also check out my most recent 10 of the best bullet vibrators post.

We-Vibe 3 Luxury Couples Sex Toy

we-vibe 3

we-vibe 3 review

We-vibe have a range of sex toys available and there’s previously been simpler versions of the We-Vibe. This is the We-Vibe 3, a much improved and more powerful toy than previous models and is specifically aimed at couples.

What’s in the box?

The We-Vibe 3 comes in it’s own special plastic case which is also the charging base and holds all the bits together.

Included with your We-Vibe 3 is:

  • The We-Vibe 3 itself
  • Remote control
  • Charging case
  • Plug in charge adapter
  • Instruction manual
  • Guarantee

What does it look like?

There are two sides to the We-vibe 3, a large side and a smaller side. The smaller side is what goes inside the vagina. It’s got ridges on it which feels very nice when it rubs against your g-spot during sex.

The larger side is for stimulating the clitoris. This side also has the controls and the We-Vibe logo embossed on it.

What does it feel like?

Made from 100% medical grade silicone, the We-Vibe 3 is nice and soft. You will also notice it’s quite bendy and flexible and can even be opened up to a right angle.

As it’s made entirely from silicone you must use a water-based lube with it. If you use a silicone-based lube with a silicone made toy it will damage and degrade the toy.

When you’re spending money on such a good quality sex toy it’s important to look after them as well as you can, and that means using a good water-based lube with it.

How big is it?

Insertable size is 3.25 inches. It’s just the right size to curve up inside you and nestle agains the g-spot. It is very slim and easily small enough for the We-Vibe 3 and your partner to fit inside you at the same time.

How is it powered?

The We-Vibe 3 is mains powered which is brilliant. My favourite sex toys are ones you can plug in and charge up. Batteries drive me mad!

There are two motors inside the We-vibe 3, one on each side giving it plenty of power.

To charge the We-Vibe 3 you simply put it onto the charging base, push the charger cable into the back of the base and insert the plug into a UK mains plug.

The advice is to charge the We-Vibe 3 for 24 hours before you use it. Being impatient this was a major downside to me. When you’ve just got your new toy you want to use it, not have to sit and watch it charge for a full day!!

However as this is an expensive and good quality sex toy, it’s better to follow the manufacturers advice and do what they say rather than risk damaging the battery life before you’ve even used it.

The long 24 hour charge is only once though so at least it’s not that long every time. After this initial charge it only takes a couple of hours to recharge between each use.

How loud is it?

It is whisper quiet. However it doesn’t really matter too much as this sex toy is designed for couples. So it’s not likely sound is going to be a problem during sex.

If you were to use it on your own, which you still could do, you can be assured it is very very quiet and just makes a gentle humming noise as it vibrates.

Does it really work?

The smallest side of the We-Vibe 3 is designed to be worn half inside the woman (vaginally), and the other half outside, resting over the clitoral area. What’s great during sex is that both of you can feel the vibrations.

It is small enough to fit inside and curves up to where the g-spot is, leaving room for your partner too.

From the woman’s point of view, because your partner is inside you at the same time, his body keeps the outer arm pressed against your clitoris – as well as him pressing against the curve of the toy itself.

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The man can feel the We-Vibe 3 inside as he moves in and out of you too, but it is very comfortable for him. The feel of the silicone covering and water-based lubricant allows for easy movement.

Trust me there’s plenty of room for your partner and the We-vibe 3 because the toy is only small. On first impression it’s natural to wonder how on earth it works.

It’s much easier to understand when you try it, but it does work very well, and the reviews on the Lovehoney website back this up.

You can use the We-Vibe 3 on your own but it is quite slim and might not be enough to satisfy you vaginally without your partner but you can certainly have some great solo clitorall orgasms with it.


A couple of reviewers mentioned they had experienced some “chafing” if the We-Vibe isn’t in the right position, and another said they had found it slipped out of position. This is something to be aware of and make sure you get it in the right place to feel nice and comfy.

If you are having really fast sex it will move out of position and someone did find the vibrations were “lost.”

I think it’s more useful for enjoying slow passionate sex with that you can build up to an easy incredible orgasm with rather than quick fast sex.

If you’re going to use a sex toy during sex then it’s unlikely you’re going to want it to be over and done as fast as possible anyway, you want to enjoy it and feel the pleasure.

How do you use it?

To switch on all you do is simply press the little nodule on the largest side of the We-Vibe 3 for a couple of seconds. One press and it switches on and starts vibrating.

There’s a remote control for changing the functions which is great! It makes it nice and easy to control whilst you’re using the We-Vibe 3 during sex.

To use the remote control all you do is press the top of the remote and with each press it moves you through the 6 different functions.

To switch off you can either press and hold down the button on the remote control, or press the nodule on the We-Vibe 3 itself.

The remote control works 3 metres away. I remember when “remote controlled” toys used to have a very short wire attached to the toy that you had to reach down for, and they were always breaking.

Sex toy technology has moved on massively.

How many settings does it have?

There are 6 functions to move through. These are low, high, wave, pulse, tease, cha cha. My favourite is tease.

The We-Vibe 3 also has “memory technology” and remembers which function you were last on if you use it again within an hour. I didn’t find this a big selling point personally because it isn’t much hassle to quickly press the remote control to move up to the function you want if you use it again within the hour, but I guess it is a nice feature to have.

What are the good points?

  • It’s completely waterproof.

Here’s a shot of the waterproof demonstration video.

  • The remote control means you don’t have to stop and change the settings on the toy itself, you can do it remotely. No need to get your hands trapped between each others bodies as you change setting.
  • Being rechargeable and not having to bother with batteries.
  • Easy to clean.
  • Good for slower passionate sex and mind-blowing orgasms for both partners.

What are the bad points?

  • Having to wait 24 hours of charge time before you can use it.
  • It is not cheap but it is a luxury well made toy.
  • If you are having fast sex it can move out of position.

We-Vibe 3 Tips

  • Keep all of the bits together. You don’t want to lose any bits like the charging stand or remote control. It will all fit neatly into the case.
  • Use only a water-based lube to avoid damaging the soft silicone covering.
  • Initially don’t have sex too fast so the toy stays in position, once you’ve got the hang of it you can experiment with what works for you.

What do other people say?

The reviews for this toy are very good and there is one hilarious review I have to point out, who talks about his girlfriend wearing the We-vibe 3 to the pub.

(You can walk round with it inside you). In the review he uses the remote control to switch the We-Vibe 3 on and off at various times to build his girlfriend up into a frenzy in preparation for a raunchy afternoon at home.

What happened is the remote control wouldn’t turn the We-vibe 3 off on this occasion, and she was getting closer and closer to orgasm in the middle of a busy pub…

Where can I get one?

Lovehoney £106.99 including delivery.

Update >>>>I have just written a review of the newer We Vibe 4 Plus. This is a newer model with remote technology and its own mobile phone app.