In this ask Grace post, I was asked:
“How often can you use a sex toy?”
The answer is, as long as you are enjoying the experience, as often as you like!
Sex toys are extremely safe and have to pass strict and stringent safety regulations before you can buy them here in the UK.
If you want to use your sex toy every day, do it. Multiple times a day? Go for it!
Why? Women who regularly use sex toys increase their clitoral sensations and improve their quality of orgasms. It’s healthy and it improves your overall quality of life too. You know who you are, you’re a sensual woman when you use sex toys regularly!
They are also a great way of exploring what you enjoy, and learning more about what feels good, with or without a partner. With this knowledge, you can let your partner know ‘this is what I like’, ‘this is what I want you to do.’
And trust me, there is nothing more sexy than a woman who knows what she likes and what she wants! Your partner will love it. Experimenting with your sex toys definitely helps you become this person.
It is possible to occasionally experience some mild discomfort from a long vibrating session, and you can over do it causing some temporary clitoral numbness, but the trick is to notice when you are feeling this way and to have a break. This is only ever temporary, and your body will tell you when it’s becoming too much, so mixing it up with some non-vibrational stimulation is a good way of not overdoing the vibrations.
I’m talking about vibrating for one long period of time, not regular shorter intervals.
So to summarise, how often can you use a sex toy? They relieve stress, they teach you about your body, they add new ways of enjoying time with your partner, and they are a very healthy part of a happy sex life.
Use your sex toy as often as you like as long as it feels good!