Bullet vibrators are an essential in any sex toy collection, whether you’re a beginner or more advanced user.

What’s so appealing about them is the way they’re small and discreet, yet they can do wonders for you during your bedroom playtime!

They’re also really unintimidating, meaning anyone who’s a bit ‘eeek’ at sex toys, usually won’t be freaked out by a small harmless bullet.

But what can you do with one?

Bullets are perfect for solo or couple play.

Solo Bullet Vibrator Play

Using a bullet on your own is fantastic for direct stimulation. As in, straight on the clitoris will give you quick, powerful orgasms.

But wait…. before you get there, a bullet is very effective using on other areas of your body first like your erogenous zones e.g your nipples. Or even some internal (shallow) stimulation, as well as all over the genital areas.

There are different sizes of bullet (all usually small still), but some are extra wide or a little longer than others. These tend to be found where there’s a range of different sizes eg with the Rocks Off range of bullets.

Couple Bullet Vibrator Play

A little (harmless) bullet is by far the easiest sex toy to first introduce into the bedroom together. If you’ve never used sex toys together, this is an excellent starter because of how unintimidating it is. It’s like bringing your lipstick with you! (Some bullets are made to look like exactly lipsticks in fact).

Notes for Him

After turning her on using the bullet around her body and nipples, try targeting the vibrations from the bullet at and around the clitoris, whilst using your tongue/fingers to touch and lick the rest of the vaginal area. Mix the vibrations and sensations up, harder and slower.

A bullet is also an amazing way of keeping her beautifully turned on during intercourse if used around her clitoris – perfect for those who struggle to orgasm through penetration alone. The bullet / intercourse combo is a sure fire way to keep her wanting more.

Notes for Her

Oooh there’s so many places for men to enjoy bullet stimulation. As well as all over the body, he has extra sensitive areas to focus the vibrations on too.

During oral you can use the bullet to help vibrations travel from your mouth, giving him a intense sensation. It can also be used around his scrotum and perineum, a smooth piece of skin between the scrotum and anus full of nerve endings.

You can also place the bullet around here during intercourse and take it in turns to experience the vibrations.

Finally, there are no right or wrong ways to play with a bullet vibrator together so experiment and see what feels good and you most enjoy!

PS Check out my 10 of the best bullet vibrators in the UK for lots more inspiration!