• 11 Secrets for a Happy (and Sexy) Relationship

    11 Secrets for a Happy (and Sexy) Relationship

    Here are 11 awesome some tips to keep your relationship fresh, vibrant and sexy. 1. Show them some positivity Make sure to let your partner know how much you appreciate them. Though they already probably know it, it would do a lot for your relationship if you make positive remarks to them regularly, praising how they are or what they did. It’s always good to be appreciative, and this will cut down on any possible resentment. 2. Don’t be over critical Try not to over criticize. Most people are fine with criticism in the beginning stages of their relationships, but as time goes by, they begin to get irritated by…

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    11 Ideas For a Sexy Date Night In

    Here are ten alternative and exciting ideas for a sexy date night in with your partner. 1. Cook together The urge for a takeaway may be there, but cooking is great fun when you really get into it. It’s an incredibly sociable activity – with enough wine flowing and some nice music, it can really set the romantic tone too. To ‘spice’ things up a little, try making something that neither of you have done before, or try your hardest to recreate one of your favourite restaurant dishes. If you really fancy a challenge, you should both attempt to make something with no real recipe, making it your own special…

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    Orgasmised for Christmas

    How are you doing this fine Friday? I’m really feeling the chill right now. But I had to share with you this sexy Christmas Santa outfit I’ve fallen in love with. (£20 at Ann Summers, love!)   Whilst I’m here let’s talk about what’s going on right now. It’s a good time of year to get everything organised for Christmas and next year, well in advance, before the crazy rush. And you can be all calm and relaxed whilst everyone else is out in the cold doing things last minute. That’s my plan anyway! And how do I do that? I buy pretty much everything online, sex toys, groceries, christmas…

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    Is Masturbation Good For You? 8 Reasons It Is!

    In this post Grace answers is masturbation good for you? Playing with your sex toys is really good for your health. Really good! And to prove it here are 8 reasons why masturbation, or self love, is excellent for you. Is masturbation good for you? Here’s why it is. 1. Better Sex Experimenting on yourself first means you know what you do and don’t like. If you don’t know yourself, your partner may not know either. And communication is a big part of a good sex life. Play with your toys, let go, have fun and just enjoy yourself with them! The more you masturbate, the more you will enjoy…

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    Using Olive Oil as a Natural Lubricant

    Olive oil as a natural lubricant Most people already have some olive oil in their kitchen. It’s great to use for cooking, on salads, and for moisturising the skin. But what about using it as a lubricant down there? How does olive oil compare to other traditional lubricants you can buy in the shops? Pros The pros to using olive oil as a sexual lubricant include: Olive oil is readily available. That goes without saying! It also lasts a long time and it’s really good for the skin. Olive oil has a neutral pH level, meaning it’s safe, especially for women trying to conceive. It should also help to keep…

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    5 Easy Halloween Costumes

    Halloween is almost upon us! And that means a great reason to get dressed up in something special and sexy. In this post I’m going to be sharing my favourite easy halloween costumes. Hopefully you’ve got something planned this halloween, but if you haven’t yet, it’s not too late. Why not ask a few people to come round to your house in fancy dress and share some nibbles and drinks or all go on a night out together in fancy dress. I had a look at some of the sexiest and also easiest halloween costumes around for UK ladies and here are my faves this year! Here’s my 5 Fave…

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    5 Reasons Why Sex Toys Make You Happier

    Here are my top 5 reasons why sex toys make you happier! 1. Acceptance of You Loving your body is essential for any woman. That includes all of you. Your bumps and curves and bits you’re not that fond of. When you’re alone with your sex toys, it’s the perfect time for practicing acceptance of your entire body and self love. Shower yourself with feelings of love as you pleasure yourself and as you orgasm. If you don’t feel it, pretend you do, imagine if you did. Imagine what it would feel like to just accept yourself as you are today, and to love every inch of your body. That’s…

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    Coconut Oil as a Natural Lubricant

    We’re talking about using coconut oil as a natural lubricant Some readers comment that they really don’t like using artificial lubes during sex and play time with their sex toys, and they would rather use something that’s more natural. In this post I’m going to tell you a bit about using coconut oil as a natural lubricant. Coconut oil has many fantastic uses! At room temperature coconut oil is usually hard, so to use it spoon some out of your jar first, warm it up in your hands and it will melt nicely. Uses for coconut oil It’s 100% natural and has no other chemicals added to it. It can…

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    11 Foods For Women That Increase Your Sex Drive

    Here are 11 foods for women that increase your sex drive. I’m not just talking about oysters. There are lots of foods you can eat (non slipper and slimey fish related) that can have a huge influence on increasing your sex drive – as a woman. Salmon Salmon is a fish high in omega-3s. These are great for improving the circulation in your body, and ultimately getting more blood flowing to your genitals. These leads to greater sensitivity and increased arousal. Omega-3s are also excellent at improving the dopamine levels in your brain, a natural feel good chemical. More dopamine, means a better mood, and an enhanced sex drive! So…

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    How Often Can You Use a Sex Toy?

    In this ask Grace post, I was asked: “How often can you use a sex toy?” The answer is, as long as you are enjoying the experience, as often as you like! Sex toys are extremely safe and have to pass strict and stringent safety regulations before you can buy them here in the UK. If you want to use your sex toy every day, do it. Multiple times a day? Go for it! Why? Women who regularly use sex toys increase their clitoral sensations and improve their quality of orgasms. It’s healthy and it improves your overall quality of life too. You know who you are, you’re a sensual…

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    How Discreet is Ordering a Sex Toy Online?

    When you order a sex toy online, does anyone else know that’s what you’ve ordered? I get asked this question a lot. What shows up on your bank statement? And how does the parcel look when its delivered? Will your old neighbour Ted know that the parcel he’s just signed for when you weren’t in is your new dildo? Your bank statements The vast majority of online sex shops will not show on your bank statement who you have actually ordered from, as they use a trading name. For example Lovehoney says LH Trading. That could be anyone. It’s not immediately obvious. Your parcel Your parcel arrives plain and there is no…

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    Can you use a vibrator when pregnant?

    I get asked this question a lot. I can see why some women might be worried and ask can you use a vibrator when pregnant, because you have got a real live baby inside of you, and you don’t want to do your baby any damage. You can be safe in the knowledge that your baby is well protected whilst you are pregnant by a thick and protective mucus plug. This plug seals off your cervix from the outside world. Hygiene is everything In the majority of circumstances it is completely safe to use a sex toy whilst pregnant with no issues so long as your toys are clean. Wash…