• 11 Secrets for a Happy (and Sexy) Relationship

    11 Secrets for a Happy (and Sexy) Relationship

    Here are 11 awesome some tips to keep your relationship fresh, vibrant and sexy. 1. Show them some positivity Make sure to let your partner know how much you appreciate them. Though they already probably know it, it would do a lot for your relationship if you make positive remarks to them regularly, praising how they are or what they did. It’s always good to be appreciative, and this will cut down on any possible resentment. 2. Don’t be over critical Try not to over criticize. Most people are fine with criticism in the beginning stages of their relationships, but as time goes by, they begin to get irritated by…

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    11 Ideas For a Sexy Date Night In

    Here are ten alternative and exciting ideas for a sexy date night in with your partner. 1. Cook together The urge for a takeaway may be there, but cooking is great fun when you really get into it. It’s an incredibly sociable activity – with enough wine flowing and some nice music, it can really set the romantic tone too. To ‘spice’ things up a little, try making something that neither of you have done before, or try your hardest to recreate one of your favourite restaurant dishes. If you really fancy a challenge, you should both attempt to make something with no real recipe, making it your own special…

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    Is Masturbation Good For You? 8 Reasons It Is!

    In this post Grace answers is masturbation good for you? Playing with your sex toys is really good for your health. Really good! And to prove it here are 8 reasons why masturbation, or self love, is excellent for you. Is masturbation good for you? Here’s why it is. 1. Better Sex Experimenting on yourself first means you know what you do and don’t like. If you don’t know yourself, your partner may not know either. And communication is a big part of a good sex life. Play with your toys, let go, have fun and just enjoy yourself with them! The more you masturbate, the more you will enjoy…

  • How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator

    You’ve no doubt already heard of the rabbit vibrator, it’s the must classic, iconic sex toy there is. Most rabbit vibrators look very similar with a distinctive look, the long insertable length, and two rabbit ears. I often get asked reader questions and one of them was how to use a rabbit vibrator? Let’s have a closer look at this toy, what it can do for you and what to do with it. The Blended Orgasm Rabbit vibrators have the potential to give a woman what’s known as a blended orgasm, two orgasms at the same time – on their clitoris and internally on their G-spot. Having both your clitoris…

  • How To Use a Bullet Vibrator

    How To Use a Bullet Vibrator

    One of the questions I get asked often is Grace, how to use a bullet vibrator? In this guide I’m going to tell you all about bullet vibrators and the cool ways you can use yours. If you don’t yet have a bullet vibrator, be sure to check out my top 10 bullet vibrators in the UK for some great ideas. What is a Bullet Vibrator? A bullet vibrator is a small, compact, discreet sex toy that is traditionally in the shape of a bullet, hence their name bullet. However there are variations on the traditional bullet now. You get some that are bigger, smaller and those that have extra enhancements…

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    How Often Should You Clean Your Sex Toys?

    I was asked: “How often should you clean your sex toys?” It’s really really important to clean your sex toys each and every time you use them. The simple answer to this question is – every time. If you don’t clean them, they can harbour lots of nasty bacteria which can grow, and give you infections and make you unwell. It is a chore, but an essential one. As soon as possible after you’ve finished using your toy, wash it in the sink in some warm water with a little bit of mild soap. You don’t want any gunk drying up on or in the toy. Get in amongst any…

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    How Often Can You Use a Sex Toy?

    In this ask Grace post, I was asked: “How often can you use a sex toy?” The answer is, as long as you are enjoying the experience, as often as you like! Sex toys are extremely safe and have to pass strict and stringent safety regulations before you can buy them here in the UK. If you want to use your sex toy every day, do it. Multiple times a day? Go for it! Why? Women who regularly use sex toys increase their clitoral sensations and improve their quality of orgasms. It’s healthy and it improves your overall quality of life too. You know who you are, you’re a sensual…

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    How Discreet is Ordering a Sex Toy Online?

    When you order a sex toy online, does anyone else know that’s what you’ve ordered? I get asked this question a lot. What shows up on your bank statement? And how does the parcel look when its delivered? Will your old neighbour Ted know that the parcel he’s just signed for when you weren’t in is your new dildo? Your bank statements The vast majority of online sex shops will not show on your bank statement who you have actually ordered from, as they use a trading name. For example Lovehoney says LH Trading. That could be anyone. It’s not immediately obvious. Your parcel Your parcel arrives plain and there is no…

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    Can you use a vibrator when pregnant?

    I get asked this question a lot. I can see why some women might be worried and ask can you use a vibrator when pregnant, because you have got a real live baby inside of you, and you don’t want to do your baby any damage. You can be safe in the knowledge that your baby is well protected whilst you are pregnant by a thick and protective mucus plug. This plug seals off your cervix from the outside world. Hygiene is everything In the majority of circumstances it is completely safe to use a sex toy whilst pregnant with no issues so long as your toys are clean. Wash…